Bishop Cunningham: ‘No child is responsible for being abused’

Bishop Robert J. Cunningham released the following statement Sept. 13:




Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ:

Many of you have awakened this morning to read an article in the Syracuse Newspapers stating that I blame victims for being sexually abused. Allow me to be clear: I in no way believe a child is responsible for being abused by any person. I also believe and have clearly stated that a priest who abuses a child is wrong as is any adult who takes advantage and harms a child.

The article cites passages from a deposition in 2011. I tried my best to answer questions and I must admit gave responses that I wish were different. It saddens me to read the article and to realize that my words give the wrongful impression to victims, their families and the people of the diocese that I believe victims of abuse are at fault. There is nothing further from the truth. Victims of abuse are never at fault!

The plain and simple fact is that depositions are difficult by their very nature. The line of questioning varied between specific and generic scenarios concerning the Sacrament of Confession. I was trying to explain that in general I do not know what is on the minds and hearts of individuals and failed to state clearly what I believe, particularly as it pertained to the case at hand. It is obvious that my choice of words should have been better. Bottom line is, I cannot go back and change my words but I can assure you that I did not believe the individual involved in the case was at fault. I clearly stated the priest was at fault. No child is responsible for being abused. A priest or any other adult who abuses a child is wrong.

Child sexual abuse in the Church is painful for all of us. It never should have a place in our Church. However, we have and are continuing to address this issue with fervor. We are committed to ensuring that child sexual abuse does not happen in the Catholic Church and that all children remain safe. Since 2002, we have established a Diocesan Review Board made up of professionals who bring their skill set to assist in determining credibility of old allegations. Our diocesan policy mandates that all clergy, religious, employees and those volunteers whose ministry puts them in the presence of children complete a criminal background check and child and youth protection training. We also have an Office of Victim Assistance which serves as the point of contact for those who feel they have been harmed and serves as a liaison to assist in providing support for spiritual and emotional healing. It bears repeating from my other letters that there is no member of the clergy serving in the diocese who has a credible allegation of child sexual abuse.

I am aware that there are those who do not agree with decisions that I have made and those who will take these words as truth and those who will not. It is a painful reality but one I cannot change.

As your Bishop, you have my commitment that I will continue to do all I can to safeguard our children. I will continue to pray for the healing of those who have been harmed. May God continue to guide us through these difficult times and strengthen me to be the good shepherd you deserve in the Diocese of Syracuse.

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Most Rev. Robert J. Cunningham

Bishop of Syracuse




3 Comments on "Bishop Cunningham: ‘No child is responsible for being abused’"

  1. I’m sorry the newspaper did this without asking for further clarification. We’re praying for you.

  2. I am sickened by the article that has misconstrued the meaning of Bishop Cunningham’s words. This is yet another example of the media’s “Catholic bashing” practices in an attempt to create “news.” Anyone who has followed the Bishop’s words and works over the past 30 or so years knows that he is a man committed to the priesthood, to his faith, and to God. Having worked with him through the Diocesan Pastoral Council, having witnessed him walking in the March for Life, having heard him preach on many occasions, I know what a faith-filled, compassionate pastor he is. Shame on the media for trying to slander a man dedicated to the sanctity of life, the protection of all God’s children, and a God-centered life. My prayers are with Bishop Cunningham and all the flock he so lovingly shepherds.

  3. The leadership of our Roman Catholic Church leaves much to be desires. Where do they find these people!

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