Donald Patrick “Butch” Stapleton, of Syracuse, passed away peacefully on Saturday, Oct. 18, 2025, at the Syracuse Veterans Administration Medical Center. Don was born on July 21, 1935, in Syracuse, NY, to Timothy Stapleton and Winifred (Mulligan) Stapleton, and was the youngest of their six children. Following graduation from Most Holy Rosary High School in 1953, where he was President of his class, he joined the Air Force. While serving in the Air Force, he attended the University of Kansas and continued his education at Syracuse University upon returning home.
Don is predeceased by his parents, brothers T. Raymond, Bernard (Bud), and John, and his sisters Rosemary Gorman and Colleen Murphy. He is survived by many nieces, nephews, grandnieces, and grandnephews. Don took care of his mother until she died. He worked for over 50 years for the Diocese of Syracuse at the Chancery Office.
His home was his “castle,” and neighbors can attest to the immaculate care he gave to his home, lawn, and rock garden. He was often teased that every blade of grass was perfect, and he was known to be of help to his neighbors. Don was very athletic. He played sports during his high school years, including basketball and baseball, and began golfing at a young age. As an adult, he enjoyed hiking and skiing.
A Mass of Christian Burial was held on Oct. 23 at Most Holy Rosary Church, 111 Roberts Avenue, Syracuse, where he was a member his entire life. Don will be laid to rest at St. Mary’s Cemetery, Dewitt.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Most Holy Rosary Church, 111 Roberts Avenue, Syracuse, NY 13207.
